A Moment with the Mayor: Neighbours

Neighbours have always been a part of our lives. It’s interesting how a simple fence can separate them—whether it’s wire or post rails in rural settings or wooden boards providing more privacy in urban areas. Historically, fences have helped define property lines, ensuring that my things stay on my side and yours on yours.

However, neighbours often share more than just a fence. They may work together, meet in social settings, or have children attending the same school. Over time, we become closer through cultural and recreational activities. I’ve been fortunate to have great neighbours throughout my life. Growing up on the farm, neighbours came together to build barns, celebrate at dances, and support community events. Conversations often revolved around the weather, grain and livestock prices, or politics.

After moving to the city, I found that while the setting changed, the spirit of neighbourliness remained. Now, chats happen on the driveway after shovelling snow or mowing the lawn, with familiar discussions about what’s been keeping everyone busy, how quickly the kids are growing, and what’s new in the world.

For many, neighbours are people you can rely on in both good times and bad. Whether borrowing a cup of chocolate chips to finish a baking project or a tool for a tricky repair, these small exchanges strengthen relationships and create a sense of community. A great neighbourhood thrives on these connections, making life more enjoyable for everyone.

The same can be said for neighbouring communities—whether villages, towns, cities, or rural municipalities. We are stronger together than apart. A fence between two neighbours is a perfect example: working together to build and maintain it is much easier and more cost-effective than doing it alone. This principle applies to communities as well—by collaborating, we can accomplish far more than by working separately.

Recent national and international events serve as reminders of the importance of being a good neighbour. When one neighbour pressures another or raises expectations, it can lead to challenges and disagreements. As discussions continue at the 49th parallel with our largest trading partner, it’s a good time for reflection. Are we working together for the benefit of all, or are we each going our own way?

Until next week!

Mayor Gerald S. Aalbers
City of Lloydminster